Your 30s Are For Becoming, Not Explaining Yourself | For Mannerless Women Live
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Welcome to the very first For Mannerless Women Live!
We're kicking off our journey through the decades of womanhood with Act 1: Becoming; Our 30s.
What happens when you stop defining yourself by who you've been, what you've survived or what everyone expects you to become?
In this powerful, hilarious and deeply honest conversation, Adelle Onyango is joined by Dushy Kuria and Lolo Cynthia to unpack the beautiful, uncomfortable and liberating experience of becoming yourself in your 30s.
From letting go of the pressure to always be the strong woman, to setting boundaries with family, embracing your body, choosing a childfree life, learning to rest without guilt and finally owning the parts of yourself you once tried to shrink, this conversation is a reminder that you are allowed to change.
And sometimes, becoming the woman you want to be means trusting her before you've even met her.
In this episode, we explore:
Redefining your identity beyond marriage, family and societal expectations.
Learning to choose softness instead of constantly performing strength.
Setting boundaries with family, friends and even yourself.
Embracing your body and making reproductive choices without apology.
Letting go of the pressure to have everything figured out by 30.
Learning to slow down, be present and trust the woman you're becoming.
Owning your loudness and taking up space unapologetically.
Recorded in front of our incredible Mannerless community in Nairobi, this is the first of three acts exploring womanhood through our 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond.
Next week: Act 2: Our 40s!
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To every woman becoming: you don't have to remain who you've always been.
