you can have strong boundaries with everyone, yet be a people pleaser for one person
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hiya 🙋🏾
it’s been a while.
i’ve not felt like myself in a minute. hence, i haven’t posted, and this particular video has been shelved for sometime now.
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but it’s finally time to let it out. because, we sometimes put ourselves in uncomfortable situations, out of loyalty and devotion to others who might not do the same when tables are turned. yet, we set remarkable boundaries with others.
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the difference is your perception of each person in your life. you place so much value on one person and you overlook your feelings when the hurt comes from them. but with others, your edges are sharper than blade.
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you prolly don’t see yourself as a people pleaser. perhaps, you think you’re just compromising for someone you love. this is why i explained the concept of people pleasing and how it’s totally different from people pleasing.
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